NO, it doesn't, it's not LOVE that hurts it's FEAR!
LOVE is always pain free, it's soft, gentle, compassionate and kind. It’s open, full, joyous,
vibrant, radiant and bliss filled. Love is giving, allowing, accepting and creating.
The opposite of LOVE is FEAR, not hate!
FEAR is always pain filled, it's hard, harsh, self-serving and unkind. It’s closed, empty,
sorrowful and grey. Fear is taking, controlling, restricting, possessing, manipulating and destroying.
How on earth then does LOVE get confused with FEAR ???
Is it perhaps that when we say "I LOVE YOU" we are really saying "I FEAR losing you" or are
we saying "I NEED you to love me cos I don't love me and without you I don’t know who I am"?
We will "love" someone until they no longer stick to their lines and play their role according
to our script. We are never much interested in their script!
Play your part, fill my needs and wants, make me feel ok about myself and we are all good.
Deviate, just a little bit, and that empty hollow feeling I have been suppressing with your
energy starts to rise. Step out of line a little bit more and fear rises up to meet us.
And so the games of FEAR begin and the illusion of LOVE collapses.