The stories are not real, they are simply creations of the mind and
bear no reference to reality.
Instead of tying up all of our energy in the story, how about just freeing up a little of that energy
at a time and giving it to ourselves?
How can we free up that energy?
This can be done by simply accepting “what is.”
If a relationship is over, it is over…
No amount of whining...… is going to change this fact.
Nobody cares about your judgments regarding the relationship, and none of it helps you to move
on and carry on with your life.
Sometimes people cling to silly fantasies and obsessions simply because our idea of ourselves
in reality and the ability to manipulate a relationship outcome has failed.
And so we REFUSE to accept reality, our life becomes stuck because of empty dreams.
The most important relationship we will ever have is the one we have with ourselves.
If we don’t get that right we won’t get any other relationship “right”.
And that’s not just intimate personal relationships, not just friendships and family BUT relationships
to everything we come into contact with.
Let those old relationship stories go.
So what if they dumped you and found someone new?
So what if they didn’t?
None of it has anything to do with you, the only thing you have any control over is YOU
and how you choose to be in relationship with life.
The formula for freedom: